While I have served in the Shelby/CutBank/Chester area of the Montana, Billing Mission, I have had the pleasure of getting to know Elder and Sister Reber, a Senior Missionary couple working in Cut Bank. They are both really awesome! Elder Reber likes to play chess, and he is really good, too. He plays chess against computers on their hardest settings for fun. And wins. One time after creaming both Elder Uppencamp and me at chess, he started to teach us a little about what we did wrong, and how to play chess better. Here is some of the advice that he gave:
- He told us that if you can get your opponent scared of you, you may already have won. When you get scared of your opponent, you start second-guessing yourself, you lose your confidence, and you can't focus well.
- You have to let go of whatever mistakes you make. If you mess up, don't focus on it. If you keep dwelling on it, and it will distract you from whats going on. Put it behind you and move forward.
- You have to focus on what your opponent is doing. Concentrate on the game, and stay one step ahead of them.
- You need to be confident and play smart. You need to make good moves, and believe they will work.
- If it starts looking like you aren't going to win, keep playing. Hold on until the end. As you do that, you will start learning more about the game, figuring things out, and you will start getting better. You may even be able to turn things around and win!